IVF, My Journey is a very honest account by HC Parker of the turbulent ride that is IVF. From devastating results to incredible opportunities and all the hoops and hurdles along the way, it is a must-read for anyone embarking on their own IVF journey.
- Weighing in at a body mass index (BMI) which was too high for NHS Scotland IVF criteria, Parker takes us through her weight loss journey and how she lost 20kg.
- When intolerances become apparent, Parker changes her diet further to prevent any unnecessary damage to her eggs.
- She then discusses the impact of trying to get pregnant with Endometriosis and Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome.
- From health to romance, Parker talks us through her marriage and subsequent divorce, becoming a singleton going through IVF, and ultimately a single parent.
- The topic of how the NHS works with same-sex couples and singletons on their journey to parenthood is also discussed.
- Parker shares her struggle with heavy periods—from an early age, needing spare clothes, to how they affected her IVF cycles.
- BMI reappears, as high muscle mass from heavy lifting needs to be reduced while maintaining fitness levels.
- She shares her personal heartbreak with a failed round of IVF and how she reevaluates her life for a second round.
- The rollercoaster of IVF hormones—from getting her period to Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome (OHSS), to having her hormones stripped and rebuilt—is explored in detail.
- Parker uncovers the reality of trying to keep up life, work, fitness, and nutrition during IVF.
- IVF, My Journey also introduces readers to some of the professionals involved in IVF, from medical staff to nutritionists.
- She shares extensive research, including her own, to help readers feel informed and empowered.
- After a failed IVF round, Parker shares how she started fresh with every aspect of her care and fitness to find the best fit.
- This book is raw, emotional, and full of facts, experiences, and determination—fighting for the little embryo through hospital visits and hope.
- From heartache to a heart full of joy, Parker shares the success of her second IVF round and documents her pregnancy.
- Ultimately, this memoir is a story of hope—ending with the arrival of her baby.
- If you’re on your own IVF journey, this book was written for you—full of practical tips and real-life expectations to help make the process manageable.
IVF, My Journey is now available on Amazon: Click here to view on Amazon.

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